5. The person wanting a divorce (known as the petitioner, Mr O’s ex-wife) must make a formal application to the court. Once received, HMCTS sends a copy of the application to the respondent (Mr O) with an acknowledgement of service (AOS). The respondent has 14 days to respond to say whether they agree to the divorce of whether they want to dispute it.
6. If the respondent agrees to the application (or fails to return the AOS within the 14 days’ timeframe), the petitioner may apply for a conditional order or decree nisi (this is an order that confirms that they are entitled to divorce). But, they cannot do this until 20 weeks after the divorce application was originally issued.
7. The court will review the application for a conditional order (according to HMCTS’s website this usually takes several weeks). If a judge agrees to the application, HMCTS will send both parties a certificate which sets out the time and date the conditional order will be granted. After the order has been granted, the parties must wait at least 43 days before they can apply to finalise the divorce and end the marriage.
8. Mr O tells us HMCTS sent an incorrect AOS for a decree nisi as the grounds for divorce were different to what his ex-wife filed for. Mr O explains he was sent an AOS relating to grounds for divorce under behaviour, but he was under the impression his ex-wife had put the divorce through as two years separation by consent.
9. Mr O says he was aware something was wrong on 15 July 2020 when he got paperwork from his ex-wife’s lawyer. He says the application form was sent again around three months later and then another time, but he was not sure when this was.
10. Mr O complained to HMCTS on 1 October 2021. He was told it needed to get his file first and there would be a wait because his divorce application was still being processed at the time. Mr O is sure the delays were all caused by HMCTS. He says he had to wait two years for a complaint response from HMCTS and he did not accept that what it said was true.
11. Mr O says he was not able to access his foreign pension as he did not have the necessary document to prove he was divorced. He says he contacted someone at HMCTS but they did not reply to him or the Solicitors Regulation Association (SRA) about his complaint.
12. HMCTS replied to Mr O’s complaint on 14 February 2022 and apologised for the delay saying complaints were taking longer than usual to reply to.
13. HMCTS explained it could not change a judge’s decision not to grant the decree nisi. It explained Mr O had submitted different grounds to divorce in the AOS to the ones submitted by the petitioner (Mr O’s ex-wife) and this meant the divorce proceedings could not go ahead. HMCTS said it was waiting for a new AOS from Mr O and his ex-wife so the divorce could go ahead.
14. HMCTS sent another response on 30 September and explained it had caused delays and errors in his divorce proceedings. It repeated what it said in its last response and said Mr O’s wife had sent an application of divorce under two years separation by consent. This was written on page ten of the divorce petition which was issued on 13 June 2020. The response went on to say it had found failings in its process when a member of the court staff sent Mr O an AOS on grounds of behaviour and not two years separation by consent, what his ex-wife had filed for.
15. And, HMCTS said an assistant justice clerk had typed a refusal notice for the divorce proceedings on 27 January 2022. This was because Mr O had not provided agreement for divorce under two years separation by consent. HMCTS noted that Mr O’s ex-wife had been granted deemed service of the divorce petition. This meant that Mr O’s ex-wife was satisfied that he had been served (given) the AOS, so went ahead with the application for divorce. On the same day HMCTS provided Mr O with an AOS for completion as per the instructions of the assistant justice clerk. HMCTS said it could not comment on any decisions made by the assistant justice clerk as this was not an administrative function.
16. HMCTS’s response went on to say that on 17 February the case was listed for decree nisi and this was heard on 22 February. The decree absolute (officially ending a marriage) was eventually pronounced on 6 April.
17. HMCTS acknowledged its administrative error with the AOS and stated this was a reason why Mr O’s case was delayed. It said the service he was given had fallen short of what it would expect and offered an ex-gratia (good grace) payment of £250.
18. HMCTS sent its final response to Mr O on 21 November and said its last response covered all of his complaint concerns. It responded to his request for travel costs to court and refused to pay these because there was no need for him to go to court.